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What's Happening?
the October Special!
It
may be harvest time, but let's plant a seed:
What if you had access to five times the number of resources you thought
you had? You can!!
“ He
combines his extensive knowledge of integral theory, the Enneagram, and
neuroscience, in a seamless way (truly a Grand Unifying Theory of
Everything), and helps you apply this greater understanding to whatever
matters to you. He helps you build the trellis which you can hang any
flower on that you choose..” – P.R., – S.F.
Each session is normally $289.00,
and will be worth much more to you in life-changing ways. Good luck!
Click to Schedule.
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PAST
EVENTS:
Let me know if
you're interested in an encore of any of these Zoom events.
We'll get to work scheduling them.
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Evoking
Excellence - it's easier than you think!
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In many ways, the job of a manager,
a parent, a teacher, or even a partnership of any kind is the same; we
want to evoke excellence in ourselves and others. In many ways our own
success often depends on our ability to evoke excellence in others.
The most effective means we have is within
our grasp and totally free: communication. Just by using a couple shifts
in how we communicate, we can achieve much more, with less stress and
more joy. These shifts have brought peace to troubled relationships and
turned faltering companies into wildly successful ones.
Join me for a fun
throwback to the concept of the Chautauqua event; gathering and
learning, followed by lively conversation. |
TUESDAY
OCTOBER 12, 2021 AT 5PM PST – 5:30PM PST
ONLINE ZOOM EVENT
Hosted by Ian
Blei
Register FREE
HERE (to get all the codes and details)
Emotional Resilience
We all get knocked down. How fast do we get back up?
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Let’s
face it, stuff happens, and we get derailed; taken off track. Now we’re
in a state where we’re not being productive, we’re not really present
for people or ourselves, and we’re literally losing time (as in our
life-time.) If we could just snap back faster, the benefits would be
thousand-fold on every level.
Emotional Resilience is as important as
Cardiac Resilience, especially when it comes down to how in charge of
your own life you want to be. Of all the things we want to control and
can’t, being able to bounce back faster from any trigger is a hugely
helpful skill-set.
Join me for a fun
throwback to the concept of the Chautauqua event; gathering and
learning, followed by lively conversation.
TUESDAY OCTOBER 26, 2021 AT 5PM PST – 5:30PM PST
ONLINE ZOOM EVENT
Hosted
by Ian Blei
Register FREE
HERE (to get all the codes and details)
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SEPTEMBER 2021 |
5 Simple
Rules for Extraordinary Relationships
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Between everything and everything else
there is space. That space is the relationship between those things.
When those things are us, relationships are about much more than
physical proximity. We’re constantly in motion, both physically and
emotionally, and as we connect with another human being in motion,
if the synchronization isn’t right, there is conflict. In that way,
we’re almost like gears hoping to mesh. If we don’t, our
metaphorical teeth get chipped, and it hurts.
After decades of working with couples,
teams, and even my own relationships, I’ve boiled the secrets for
success down to 5 straightforward rules. They tend to be mostly
about communication, as that’s the mortar between the bricks that are
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Communication is what binds us or pushes us apart, so using these 5
rules assures connection, rather than conflict.
Whether professional or personal,
Successful relationships depend on certain attitudes and
communication. I’ve boiled it down to the most impactful 5 rules for
extraordinary relationships. Join me, and we’ll explore them
together. Warning: this may result in happy connections
When:
Tuesday, September 14, 2021
5:00 - 5:30pm
Where:
on Zoom. Register
HERE for this FREE event!
(and to get the passcode, etc.)
Communication Actions for Optimized Results
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There are steps you can take right now, that will help you achieve
success with less stress and more joy. They don't require any expense,
and they're within your grasp. These four communication shifts have
turned faltering companies into wildly successful ones. Applying
Conscious Communication shifts the entire culture of an organization,
making it agile, responsive, and healthy.
When:
Tuesday, September 28, 2021
5:00 - 5:30pm
Where:
on Zoom. Register
HERE for this FREE event!
(and to get the passcode, etc.) |
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AUGUST 2021 |
Managing
Pain With Your Brain
"It's Chemistry, Man!"
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We may not be able to change what happens to us, but we can change how
we deal with it and how it affects us. Re-wiring your brain chemistry is
actually a learnable skill that puts you in command of your experience.
Sometimes what’s throwing us is temporary, and sometimes chronic, but in
the moment all we know is it hurts. We react by trying anything to make
it stop, and this often leads to even more problems. We try stuffing and
masking physical pain and anxiety with pills and other things, none of
which work sustainably, and usually have negative side effects.
You have other options! From Norman
Cousins laughing his cancer into remission, to Stephen Hawking adding 50
years to his 5 year death sentence, to Aimee Mullins, a double-amputee
from infancy, growing up to be a runway model, motivational speaker, and
champion runner, there’s obviously another way to approach pain.
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Learn new ways to look at and manage
the “downside” of things from pain to stress to depression, and
learn optimism as a habit.
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Reduce stress and increase energy.
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Shift your own brain chemistry from
flight or fight to rewards and achievements.
Blending principles of both neuroscience
and positive psychology, you can learn how to shift your outlook on life
on a daily basis, in a way that reduces pain. Being in command of your
positive, energized mind, focused on solutions vs. problems is one of
the most powerful skill-sets you can have.
When:
Tuesday, August 17, 2021
5:00 - 5:30pm
Where:
on Zoom. Register
HERE for this FREE event!
(and to get the passcode, etc.)
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Access
the Treasure Trove Within
Be Better at Everything You Do
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We all have multiple perspectives within; each offering unique gifts.
And you are absolutely greater than the sum of the parts!
How many "gurus" have you heard say "be
like me, do what I do," as they're "successful, have all the answers,"
and so on. The truth is, what works for me, may not work for you. We're
not the same people. So who do you listen to? Surprise! You need to
listen to you!
We're going to look at how you can
identify and use a vast array of resources you may not know you have -
yet. Mastering this puts you in the comfortable, confident state of
mind, where you know you can handle whatever life throws at you. |
When:
Tuesday, August 31, 2021
5:00 - 5:30pm
Where:
on Zoom. Register
HERE for this FREE event!
(and to get the passcode, etc.) |
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The 3
Strikes of Communication
Wouldn't you prefer a Grand Slam? |
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We fall into some bad habits in our communication, and they’re actually
pretty easy to identify and eliminate. On the speaking side, it’s about
verbal accuracy and being explicit, but the majority of our difficulties
are on the listening side, and these are so much easier to fix.
We tend to be far more “busy” while
listening to someone than we need to be. We’re often thinking of what
we’re going to say based on a snippet of what we heard, without fully
hearing the entirety of the speaker’s point. This can take us on a
tangent away from the point of the conversation, and even start
conflict, where none was intended.
Join me for a quick, fun exploration of
the 3 habits in the way of our communication excellence, and how you can
improve your interpersonal interactions immediately. |
When:
Thursday, July 15, 2021
5:00 - 5:30pm
Where:
on Zoom. Register
HERE for this FREE event!
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Internal
Prejudice
It all starts inside |
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Our internal communication is filled with the clutter of many voices,
from our parents, teachers, peers, etc. Within this cacophony of words
there are narratives we tend to follow without really thinking about
them. Some of these narratives are about others, but a huge amount of
what directs us are the ones we listen to about ourselves.
We have numerous ways of processing
incoming information, and oddly enough, we seem to favor one over the
others. Have you ever noticed that you tend to favor thinking over
feeling, or intuition over thinking, or any other hierarchy you can
make?
These hierarchies are usually formed by
outsiders when we're very young, and don't necessarily coincide with
what actually works best for YOU. That's what we want to put in place;
what works best for you.
Join me for a quick, fun exploration of
this Internal Prejudice obstructing your productivity and happiness, and how you can
access and embrace your most powerful resources immediately. |
When:
Tuesday, July 27, 2021
5:00 - 5:30pm
Where:
on Zoom. Register
HERE for this FREE event!
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